The "Verdict" is in...

I think I am experiencing information overload here but I will try to update everyone.

We have been going through a pretty rough time with behavior issues lately. We went last night and registered Isaac in the "Tough Love" program - it is now called Standupp. They have a bunch of great suggestions that we will be trying at home. I will let you know if they are working or not.

Today he went for a psych evaluation. He was very open and honest about things. He seems to have alot of anger towards his father for not keeping his promises. When the lady asked who he trusted he said "my mom". When she asked if he trusted his father - he said no. He said his father lied to him and he does not trust him now. I guess they will touch base more on that later. She went over the basics and asked ALOT of questions. I watched him from behind the glass so he could talk freely and not know I was listening. He talked about things I never knew he remembered. Things I wish I could forget. So I can only assume how difficult it is for him.

They have concluded he does definitely have ADHD and PTSD (post tramatic stress disorder) they are also going to test him for Bi-Polar and OADD (Oppositional Adult Defiant Disorder). The good thing is OADD is a learned behavior - so there is a chance he may unlearn the negative behavior his shows to adults and people of authority. The bad news is - ADHD, PTSD and Bi-Polar are not learned behaviors and never go away. They can however be controlled with medication.

So I guess in a nutshell - he is doing ok for the moment - but the outcome is still to be seen. They have advised Juvenile Hall would not be a good idea for him. The scare tactic of it would not effect his mental behavior. This comes from a chemical imbalance and may also be hereditary. Since I don't know what type of medical conditions are on my side of the family - I can not make any assumptions.

I have however figured out my kid is a scared little boy that just needs someone to be there when he needs them - and I will do my best to do that everyday.

OK - now I need to go start dinner...

Love:
K & I {Kristine and Isaac}